Love Again!

It feels so good when U love someone and that Person loves U back,
But Life isn't always fair,
We decide Who We Love but We don't get to choose Who loves Us,
oh how hurtful it could be, when U love someone,
and the One doesn't love U back,
or even pretends to do but just uses U to fulfill their errotic
and ego needs!
It hurts!

But are U going to stop loving 'cause of that?
Are U going to give up on Love cause of that?
No!
Capital No.
How do U come out of the hurt and move on?

1)Be true to Yourself, if not to anyone else, that U'r hurt!
don't try to act over it, don't try to form to be stronger than U really are.

2)Allow Urself to cry if the tears come rolling down Ur cheeks, if they dont,
don't force them!
Tears are a part of the healing process, cause I know those tears aint coming
from the Brain, neither is there a water storage system within the eyeballs,
so they must be coming from somewhere deep within, like Your Soul!

3)Face the pain and deal with it.
Make up Your mind to forget it and move on. Allow time to do the magic.
If U have the nerve, which I suggest U need, Pray 4 the One that hurt You,
don't perceive Him or Her as Your Enemy.
Call them up once a while just to say Hi, but don't be tempted to fall
into the same trap twice!

4)Assure Yourself that there's someone 4 U!
It only shows that He or She wasn't meant to be Yours.
If anyone was meant to be Yours, He/She'll be Yours eventually, just move on!

5)Finally, create new ways of making Yourself happy!
The best way to be happy is to make someone happy!

Goodluck Friends!

Love!

Love is not a feeling,
rather, its a conscious commitment,
One that is not based on comfort or gratification,
but a deep seated conviction that it is worth the try.
If u depend on your feelings to carry you
through the experience of Love,
U are most likely to fail.

I have discovered that true Love is not about
getting or finding the right person to love,
its about Loving who comes along,
irrespective of whether they are good or bad!

Its about making Yourself the right person,
and the right person will locate You,
remember We attract our kind.

So to succeed at Love, try and make Yourself beta first,
stop trying to point the wrong in the other person,
when U'r right, dont be quick to point it,
be tolerant, and be gentle when U make Your points.

Above all,
Be Prayerful!

Love is on the way!